Old photos are fragile in more ways than one. The paper fades, the colours shift and the people who knew who was in them grow fewer every year. Getting them scanned and labelled is a job worth doing now.
Here are the photos that made it into the book. Tap any of them to see it larger.
The ones that made it
9 photos
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Keep it simple
Do not aim for perfection. A good-enough scan with the right caption beats a perfect scan of a stranger.
Start with the photos that only one person can still name. Everything else can wait.
- Leave the cover for last
- Write a few words beside the best ones
- Pick a fixed day each month
What we got wrong
Quiet months are worth printing too. A month with no trips and no birthdays often turns into the book people return to, because it shows what ordinary life looked like before it changed.
Take one photo before the moment and one after. The before and after often say more than the moment itself.
The book comes, and for one evening nobody looks at their phone.
Marcus, father of three
Make it a habit
Make a cup of tea, sit somewhere comfortable and put the phone on do-not-disturb. The job goes faster when it does not compete with messages.
Print sizes matter less than you think. A small photo surrounded by white space can feel more special than one stretched to fill the page.
Quick tip: star photos on your phone as you take them. Picking takes half the time at the end of the month.
When to stop
If you miss a month, do not try to catch up all at once. Start again with this month and fill the gap later if you feel like it.
A good caption answers the question someone will ask in twenty years. Who is that? Where were we? Why is everyone wet? Write the answer while you still know it, even if it feels too obvious to bother with today.
- Write a few words beside the best ones
- Include at least one place, not just faces
- Hand the camera to someone else
What to look for
Be generous on the first pass. You are not deciding what goes in the book yet, only what is definitely out.
When a month has a big event in it, such as a wedding or a first day at school, let it take over. There is no rule that says every week needs equal space. The book should feel like the month felt.
The book comes, and for one evening nobody looks at their phone.
Marcus, father of three
Why it works
Hand the phone to someone else at least once a month. It is the only way the photographer gets into the book.
Leave a little space. Not every page needs to be full, and an empty corner gives the eye somewhere to rest.
Quick tip: star photos on your phone as you take them. Picking takes half the time at the end of the month.
One more thing
On the second pass, look for variety. A month of the same room and the same faces feels flat, even if each photo is lovely on its own.
Do not wait for a special occasion. The ordinary weeks are the ones people forget, and the ones they most want to see again.
- Back up before deleting anything
- Pick a fixed day each month
- Write a few words beside the best ones
Try it this month
Ask someone else to look at your shortlist. They will spot the photo you were about to drop and the one you only kept out of habit.
Try not to edit every photo. A little brightening is fine, but heavy filters date quickly and make a year of books look uneven when they sit together on a shelf. Let the light of the day show.
We don’t take more photos than we used to. We just look at them now.
Ana, a reader since the first year
Start with what you already have
Back up before you delete anything. It takes a minute and removes the fear that stops people from clearing out at all.
I never thought about the light from the window. Moved the high chair and the difference is huge.
Try giving them the phone for a day. Worked with my teenager.
The bit about writing names on the back hit home. We have a box of strangers in our loft.
Thanks for asking this, I was wondering the same.
Older kids are tricky. Asking them to take some of the photos works better than chasing them.
Lovely post. The bit about keeping the blurry photos made me go back and rescue a few.
I printed our first book after reading this and my daughter has not put it down since.
Any tips for doing this with twins? I end up with two of everything.
Saving this for the end of the month. Last Sunday it is.